Why did you start your blog?

I have a number of blogs – I first started one a few years ago when I returned from my trip from Northern India, to post the photos and letters that I had written during my one month stay. I believe I used Blogger.com at the time and later went to WordPress.

I never kept a regular blog until about two years ago when I decided to look into writing again and doing freelance writing work. After much research I liked WordPress more than other blogging sites as it offered more flexibility should I choose to monetize the site later on.

I attended my first Word Camp in Miami last year and hope to go again this year. I learned a lot, not just about how to set up a self-hosting site, prior to going, but about myself and what I was capable of.

I have many blogs to exhibit my writing and just to get my thoughts out there and if it brings on conversation and ideas from others I have fulfilled the mission of blogging for myself – to inform, entertain, document my life and life lessons. Blogging, it’s a good thing.

Me? An Entrepreneur?

My thoughts on starting my own business and paying per task not for time spent.

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I've always thought about and have started my own business. However, not in the traditional sense of brick and mortar. I would have an internet based business so that I can cut overhead and not have to pay salaries. I prefer to do things by contract workers. Just pay for what you need. Employees are a waste of time to make money they spend time, and that's not alway productive.

The best way of making money and spending money on creating more business is by using your time and resources carefully. Which for me means paying for a service or task, not paying for people to take up space and do a "job", I want them to fulfill a need.

My business as a freelance writer allows me to do just this. I can be hired as a consultant to write for someone and get paid for that work as it's completed within their guidelines and deadlines; not just sit and wait for someone to tell me what to do and wait until the timeclock says I'm done.

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Technology & it’s Impact on Families

Technology can bring us closer as a family, as long as we know when to stop using it and be "real".

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Technology is chaging the way families interact in both positive and negative, however I believe it's mostly positive. The negative is that we sometimes don't have real face-to-face conversations when we should.

The positive is that in our time when many of us are separated by distance and don't always get to catch up with one another in the day to day things of our lives – things like social media, smart phones, computers, wireless/internet – technology allow us to post videos, photos, voice messages etc – that can bring our families together, wheras in the past we were subject waiting for the times when we would have to wait for a physical visit and family gatherings.

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An ‘aha’ moment


Who I think about

When I think of the phrase “aha moment” I think of Oprah. It’s interesting to note that it’s not a phrase or saying that she created, like the cook who kept referring to EVOO, which she meant as, extra virgin olive oil. The reason I or others might think of Oprah when you say what is you’re a-ha moment is that she says it on her television show often and she’s a very well known talk show hosts. If she weren’t it the words a-ha wouldn’t bring Oprah to mind.

First names only

While we’re on the topic of people who are known by their first names only – did you ever wonder how that occurs? Like the artist who tried to be known for her first name, Monica, it was so common people who say, Monica who?  But if you say, “Madonna, Cher, Oprah, Sting, Prince” – people actually don’t have to ask who, they say, “what about them?”

Brad’s Aha!

Now back to today’s topic, my recent aha moment. Well, I’ll have to think about that. Hmmm yes, time is ticking so it must not be that earth shattering that I can’t think of anything more recent then from the a couple of weeks ago when I read the opening letter from a book I’m going through, “My Life is Not My Own,” by Bill Bright.

So maybe this is not my aha moment, but that of one of Dr. Bright’s son, Brad Bright. Through Brad’s aha moment, I had my own. Brad talked about how he overhead a reporter ask his father, the founder of one of the largest international Christian organizations in the world, “Could you share a problem you face that the average Joe Christian can relate to?”  Dr. Bright’s response was that he had no problems.

According to Brad, he said the reported asked the same question in several different ways and was frustrated that Dr. Bright had the same answer. Finally, Dr. Bright told the reporter and said, “Young man, you need to understand something, I am a slave of Jesus. It is not the slave’s responsibility to be successful, but simply to do what the Master asks. When you understand this, you will realize you don’t have problems. All that’s left are opportunities to see the Master work.”

Became my Aha!

And this is what became my aha moment, the words of Dr. Bright, through his son’s memory of his own aha moment. Even though Brad was raised in the household of his father and had heard him speak many times, he never got what his father meant about being a slave to God until he overheard this interviewer ask his dad that one question, and Dr. Bright’s response.

I spoke with a long-time employee of Campus Crusade who said that when Dr. Bright was alive and would speak to the people, he would often refer to being a slave to Christ. She said that she didn’t read his book but was glad that there was an explanation of what Dr. Bright was referring to.  I am fortunate to have received a copy of the book because I volunteered at Campus and during the holidays, Dr. Bright’s widow, Vonette Bright sends out Christmas cards and gifts every year; of which I was helping package the mailings of her gift. In her gift package were two books, the one I’m talking about and the second is a book that she wrote called, “In His Hands.” Her Christmas card included a note with her photograph holding her favorite photo of her dear husband. Now that’s another story.

WordPress Challenge gets more published

Update on this post:
2014 Dec 6 – What I’ve discovered that if you have a challenge online that emails you every day and harrasses you, you may or may not continue the challenge.
I find if I set goals along with the challenge or a competition with other writers, I’m more likely to keep writing. Since I write for many different sites and as a freelancer, my full time job and belong to several “support” groups of bloggers, writers and online groups of interest – goal setting is really the key to keep writing regularly. Of course it helps to have topics to write about when new things are going on all around you to write about that particular day or series of speakers at a conference and things you pulled from a workshop or talk that you attended.
So the Tip of the Day is not only join a challenge like #postaday but set goals for the week or month and allow yourself a break and reward system so that you have a sense of accomplishment with whatever you’re working on. Then and only then will I feel that I have accomplished a good thing for my writing and keeping up with personal blogs or journey type blogs that are not a “have to” but a “get to”. Good luck!

2011 – Since I got a late start working on my #postADay2011 challenge, I’ve been writing several topics a day to catch up. I thought I’d use most of them for my daily blog posts, but then as all good things are, I find that I can use my blogs as articles that I write for payment on Yahoo! Contributor Network (YCN).This is great, but now I have nothing to post on my blog – that’s funny in a good way.  My initial thought was answer the questions on the topic of the day and it would be short and random. Then after I was completed with that I could write an article or two that I may get ideas from in which they would be appropriate for payment.The last two went straight to YCN and I’ll wait until it gets reviewed and I get paid, hopefully, then I’ll post it back partially on my blog and refer back to YCN as I also get paid for page views.

I want to thank the people who came up with the idea of the post a day challenge for 2011, it is not only helping me post more often to my blogs, but it’s helping me make money and keep my flow as a freelance writer going well from the start of this great year 2011. Cheers!

Do you prefer to talk or text?

Interesting topic, it depends on how fast I need information and who I need to contact and whether or not the other party has the ability to send and receive texts. But then again that’s being rational. The straight answer is I prefer to text everything. I love it so much that I will text even urgent matters to my husband as he’s a texter too. Is that even a word?  My husband likes to text, then uses it against me; cause I may not  remember something I said, or worse texted, and then he has proof!


I know that there’s an alarming number of young people who stopped talking on their phones only to be found texting even when they are right next to the person they are texting. I don’t see a problem with that. However our 8-year-old is smarter than the average bear. She often asks us if we are texting each other in her presence as she’s figured out that we don’t want to discuss certain things in front of her and that was the next best thing to communicate to one another when we had to all be together.


There are of course times that I hate when people text. If you knew me, you’d know those are strong words as I dislike things, but I don’t hate things. Mainly I hate when people text and drive. It’s not only my pet peeve as I have seen and heard the dangerousness of this behavior. My husband does it often.


Once I was following behind him in my car, he was only one car in front of me and he texted me something. I couldn’t and don’t like to text back so I called him and asked him why he was texting me when he could call.


I thought the only reason in the past that he would text me was because he might not be able to have a verbal conversation while he was at work. But he said that he can text better then he could talk, even while he was driving. This is mainly an issue for me when we are in the same car and I’m the passenger and I see him texting and going off the road. He’s stopped doing it for the most part, unless he’s at a stop.  ~L

Who deserves more credit? Depends on how you define the word

Who deserves more credit?


Here’s another topic for WordPress’ topics to write about. One could read this to mean either credit for work done or not; or finances. Since this is part of my challenge to blog daily, it’s nice that I can write however and whatever I choose. So here it is:


Answer: Everyone else. Yes, that’s right, I am not my own. If I took credit, both for the good and bad things that happen around me, then I would have no need to for others in my life. Honestly, sometimes I want it that way. I used to have a sign in my room that said, “The more I know people, the more I like my dog.” That’s funny in a pet lover kind of way. But not as a person who’s supposed to be living life outside of a hermit shell.



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